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Mary
"I gave the book 5 stars because it addresses serious issues that many, many women face. I think even those who are not partnered with narcissists would benefit from reading it, particularly women married to alcoholics.
But just as alcoholism is a disease, so is narcissism and at least in my experience, not a way of being that can be easily controlled by the narcissist. Whatever the cause, my husband is incapable of caring for anyone but himself. For 48 years I had the hope and illusion that he could become the person I wanted him to be. But like the frog in the pot of water, I finally had to jump out before I was cooked. Your book tells it like it is! Thank you."
Shirley Ann Riddern Labzentis
"Have you ever met the perfect man who was such a charmer? He sweeps you off of your feet at first. Then things start to change, and he becomes more demanding of your time.
Over time, he becomes physically and mentally abusive. Get out of the relationship!
This book tells you how to watch for the warning signs that he is a narcissist and gives you the power to get out."
Anonymous
"The Opposite of Love" is a profoundly insightful book, packed with valuable advice for anyone dating or married to a narcissist. Its clear organization and helpful chapter takeaways make it easy to revisit key concepts whenever needed. I highly recommend it to anyone seeking the tools to finally reclaim their life and "slay the dragon."
Thairis Daumy
“This book is must read for anyone looking to understand the dynamics of narcissism in love and life. The author's empathic approach helps readers understand the motivation behind narcissistic behavior, while also highlighting the strength it takes to break free from its grip. Highly recommend!”
Roberto de Sousa
“A must to all that have been taken by the tricks of the heart.”
Priya Murugesan
“I believe this book would be useful in figuring out people before getting into a relationship. I would love to read this book when I get a chance.”
Stephen Christopher
“After reading your paragraph on everything a narcissist is, I'm grateful my husband doesn't tick any of those boxes. My heart goes out to anyone who is married to one, and I hope they get a lot of help from this book."
Bethel Saint Bright
“I am guilty as charged. I used to think that the opposite of love is hate. While I know how indifference plays out, I haven't really seen it as the opposite of love. This is a new knowledge for me.”
Official Review From Online Book Club
“People think that the opposite of love is hate. Wrong. The opposite of love is indifference. The book was enjoyable and informative. There was nothing to dislike or disagree with. The author’s writing was easy to understand and flowed nicely across the pages. I would recommend this book to anyone having difficulties in their relationship or looking to get into a relationship. The book was well-edited, as I did not find any errors. I recommend this book to adults and young adults alike. If young adults have this knowledge, it might help them avoid getting involved with someone with these unsavory characteristics. I am rating this book 5 out of 5 stars. It wasn't the most incredible book I ever read, but it was the most educational one.”
Nneka
"The Opposite of Love" sounds like an insightful guide on navigating relationships, especially regarding the complexities of dealing with narcissistic individuals. The emphasis on understanding narcissistic behavior and its effects on love and connection is particularly intriguing. I appreciate that the author provides practical advice for recognizing and addressing these issues, which could be valuable for both young adults and those already in relationships. It seems like a helpful read for anyone looking to foster healthier connections."
Nicci Attfield
“An insightful, easy to understand and frightening insight into the world of narcissism. As a reader, I found the book and the descriptions frightening, and this adds to its value. Women are so often taught that love can turn the beast into a soft hearted and squishy prince. I think all of us have had an experience with someone. whose overwhelming determination to get their own way can be extremely disconcerting and confusing, and the book brought back some very uncomfortable feelings from the past. That said, knowing the red flags that indicate persistently selfish and indifferent people is a huge benefit when it comes to self care. I think it would make a huge difference to women who are doubting their current relationships or who have just left an abusive relationship they don't want to get sucked back into. For women whose worlds have actually collapsed and who are trying to make sense of what has suddenly happened, or women who feel as though they have been thrown under a bus, this book would offer a way out of the confusion and trauma by helping a woman to make sense of her story.”
Mary Sharkey
“The Opposite of Love" really opened my eyes to clearly see and subsequently manage the narcissists I know. I didn't know much about relationships with narcissists until I read this book. The vignettes really help to illustrate the points that are highlighted in the book. The clear takeaways and proposed actions allowed me to take control in situations I find myself in with narcissists. This book is not psycho-babble or purely self-help. The perspective is clearly written by someone who knows what it is like to be in a relationship with a narcissist. And she wants to help all women to avoid the same pitfalls or find their way out of such relationships should they identify that they are in one. It's a quick but effective read that will change your point of view for yourself and even perhaps for others you may know who are in such relationships or have been at some point in their lives. And there is even some humor in here, too!”
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Reviewed in the United States on November 8, 2024